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獨自旅行不屬於單身女子

Wednesday, 9 January 2019



這次我也是在飛機上打著這篇博文. 和上次的心情不一樣(前往閱讀:2年前的第一次旅行),上次特緊張特害怕;這次特興奮特期待.這次我沒有17公斤的行李, 反而只有8公斤, 輕鬆多了.

完成了7天的獨自旅行,我也得總結一下,好讓我以後可以翻讀我到底在26歲的年華做了什麼讓自己驕傲的事.

到底為什麼我那麼推薦女生一定要去個屬於自己的獨自旅行.

1)沒有誰沒有了誰會活不下去

“你真的不能自己一人完成所有事情嗎?” 熱戀或是有男朋友的你,認真思考這問題. 我以前總覺得我真的不能一個人, 什麼都得依賴身邊的人, 導致我對自己沒信心.

一個人旅行, 你任何大小事都需要自己做決定. 我發現,一個人旅行會提升自己的信心, 比以前更勇敢. 不要什麼都是:我問看看我男朋友, 我不敢做決定,讓我再考慮看看, 我叫我男朋友一起去 (男朋友們我沒有要挑撥離間哈哈哈!!🙈)

2)你的極限真的是極限嗎?

往往我們都覺得自己盡力了,不敢再往前一步. 我以前也覺得自己不能幫自己拍照, 經過多次失敗, 我很享受幫自己拍下旅行的每一個回憶; 我以前覺得自己一個人只能做好一份全職, 現在我有份全職+兼職(THE JEM LABEL), 雖然很忙 可是很充實!
所謂的極限, 真的只是自己給予自己不努力的藉口🙆


3)多久沒聆聽自己內心的聲音?

“你幾歲了還不要結婚啊?適婚年齡喔!別人的孩子都那麼大了呀~~~ 誰誰誰買房子換車了!” 有沒有聽過這些? 😥我有. 從畢業開始, 就一直朝著父母/身邊的人所嚮往的“人生”前進, 我沒有好好瞭解自己到底要什麼. 不是每個人的時間點都一樣, 你可能比別人遲, 可是人生就是一場馬拉松, 你還是會跑到終點. 有時, 你真的需要和自己好好相處.


4)聽聽別人的世界

科技發達, 我們都可以從網路知道世界各地的文化. 可是就算科技多麼發達, 人與人之間的互動, 還是得通過面對面的相處. 我獨自旅行,最喜歡和最不喜歡的, 都是和陌生人談話. 不喜歡, 是因為我真的很怕社交;喜歡, 是因為我能踏出自己的安全地帶. 這次住宿都是Airbnb (廣告時間:用我的連結可享有RM162折扣🏚),有一晚和不一樣國家的遊客聊了3個小時, 我還真的覺得自己好渺小, 還不夠努力. 人生啊, 就是不應該活在自己舒服的圈子!

5)屬於自己的行程

每次旅行不是你安排行程就是你朋友, 有沒有想過你應該讓自己作主一次, 不需要遷就任何人? 我不想別人遷就我,所以我選擇了一個人旅行: 我不吃早餐🍴, 不需要強迫自己早起床; 我不愛人多的地方, 我的行程都是沒什麼遊客的地點; 我一天吃一餐, 我可以不看價錢點餐, 這樣就是我所謂的“屬於自己的行程”,為自己旅行一次!



上述都是我自己的心聲, 並沒有想要“教壞”你們的女朋友喔!!哈哈~~😅
不知道大家對於我一個人到Perth自駕旅行的行程是否有感興趣, 很快會發佈喔~~
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