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不配当老公的,还留着干嘛?

Sunday, 19 October 2014


终于能好好坐下来打博文,分享心情. 之前赶报告赶得快崩溃,遇到怠惰的组员很无奈=(

一辈子时间那么长,我们往往会遇到让我们伤心难过的人,今天想要谈的是爱情事.


从小感情丰富
从小妈咪都反对我们有男朋友,说我们是 puppy love (华语是小狗恋爱?不明白~~),可是我从小感情丰富,上小学一年级已经有心上人了,还记得他名字是Vincent,过后我还帮我弟取了Vincent(可是现在没在用了哈哈). 


爸爸妈咪反对
到了国中,妈咪对我更加严厉,她知道我有个小男友,就连家里电话也不让我碰,朋友打来都得问是谁打来干嘛的. 我也没手机. 怎么说,橡皮筋拉得越紧 反弹时会更疼. 和那小男友在一起应该有3年吧(我记性很好 别得罪我 哈哈 开玩笑)我属于乖巧型女孩(就是那种怕老师怕闹事的,现在想起来我有必要那么乖吗LOL),而小男友是不爱念书爱逃课的学生,现在问我我也不明白怎么会喜欢上他.


爱情就是无法解释的,更何况他是你第一个爱得那么深的人. 尽管老师怎么劝我,我也只会点头说好,也没认真考虑她们的劝告. 当时我只知道他可以为了我改变自己!

我劝他要好好念书,把头发剪短 别逃课, 他没100%配合我,就偶尔敷衍我.

有天,学校拨电话给妈咪,谈了我们的事. 妈咪也告诉了爸爸,爸他很传统 就是觉得男女授受不亲,拿起藤鞭要鞭我;妈咪她立刻阻止:不行,我不让你打她 *脸上还流着泪* (这一幕,我这一辈子没法忘记,我要时时刻刻提醒自己不能再让妈咪为我伤心)

爸:你是要以后倒垃圾吗?(他意思是和那小男友一起以后不会幸福)


藕断丝连
尽管这样,我还是无法离开他. 他曾经在朋友面前骂我,在我要考试前发脾气,爱提出分手等等....... 几度我提出分手,他用跳楼自杀威胁我 (我还真的相信 怕了他==!)他几乎不让我和其他男生说话,不让我穿短裤短裙,到补习社会拨电话(拨打我朋友手机)问我穿了什么. 如果是短于膝盖的裤子/裙子,我会被骂><  (天啊!我怎么那么笨告诉他)

已经很多次,他对我发脾气,甚至在朋友面前辱骂我,家人把我捧在手掌心你怎么能那样对我, 你不配!

啊!这是当时玩Friendster的头像,我不明白为什么眼睛睁得那么大,干嘛要咬手指,是装可爱还是卖弄性感啊?LOL


他不配
朋友问我会和他结婚吗?我说不会,我深信他不会是我的未来老公,因为他不配. 那为什么还在一起呢?--------不舍.

就是不舍得那么多年的感情,一个我放了那么多心思的男生. 终于有天,他又再次提出分手 恐吓我, 我忍不住 就说:好呀!就分手!


他有点吓着了(我平时不会对他大声),我没理会他,在一旁流着泪. 那段时间,他会拨电话来我家 尝试挽回,我几度想要原谅他,可是我咬紧牙根坚持不复合,因为他不配!

伤心的日子很快熬过了,我可以自由地和朋友逛街,可以和男生朋友联络,啊!就是那种放下心头大石的感觉!!!!!!!

当时分手后第一次和朋友到金河广场逛街,穿短袖短裤,超开心无压力的!



我没后悔!一点也没有! 女生们,记得只要哭过就好了,时间能冲淡一切. 如果几年后回头看,你会发现当时的决定是对的.



恋爱和婚姻只是一线之差
当时我还是不明白为什么妈咪常说找男朋友要看好,不要结婚后后悔. 过后也谈过蛮长一段时间的恋爱,妈咪后来也蛮喜欢那男生的,他也承诺会让我过得幸福,我也觉得他可以是我的终身伴侣. 他对我很好,就是那种36孝男朋友. 我对他十分信任,根本没怀疑他.

当时高中的青涩脸庞哈哈哈


渐渐踏入学院,见识多一些,要求不一样,开始有了意见不合,虽然他还是宠着我,可是我发现有点不对劲了.

提出了分手再复合,分手复合好几次,最后发现有些事我被瞒着好久........ 而且还是妈咪告诉我的,当时很多谜底被揭开,我才发现自己被骗了3年之久. 没后悔在一起,他改变了我,为我上了宝贵的一课-------不要没主见地相信一个男人.


现在我觉得选男朋友和选老公一样重要,难道你只是打算浪费青春和一个不会是你终生伴侣的男人一起?然后再分手,再找下一个,再分手.........

爱情没得买保险,就算你们分手了,至少大家曾经认真对待这段感情.

他能当个好男友,那他能当个好老公好爸爸好女婿吗?这问题很重要. 如果父母不怎么喜欢那男的,你可要三思;如果妈咪告诉你这男的嫁不得,你可要三思;如果他和家人关系不好,你可要三思;如果对你他也不舍得花钱,你可要三思......... 
每个妈妈想要自己女儿嫁得好是没错的,毕竟她们经历过婚姻,也希望自己女儿以后有个美满生活. 


“ 男朋友不只是会改变你的Relationship status,而是能让你成长变得更成熟的那个人. 如果他不配当老公,那还留着干嘛?”


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My 1010 birthday in Melbourne !

Saturday, 18 October 2014
Hellooooooo like seriously, long time no see *wave wave*

I have finished my classes and handed in my last report of study life on Friday , yeah huraayyyy no more rushing at the eleventh hour !!!!


Last Friday, it was hippo and my 1010 birthday, at this moment I still hardly believe that I found a partner who shared the same birthday with me. Recalling when I was in secondary school, I used to dream that I can find someone who shared the same birthday with me and be my lifetime partner (so dream comes true?) ya I want hippo to be my lifetime partner *blush blush*


awwww cant believe we've been annoying each other for 3+ years, and still counting hehehehe

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