Sunday, 19 October 2014

不配当老公的,还留着干嘛?



终于能好好坐下来打博文,分享心情. 之前赶报告赶得快崩溃,遇到怠惰的组员很无奈=(

一辈子时间那么长,我们往往会遇到让我们伤心难过的人,今天想要谈的是爱情事.


从小感情丰富
从小妈咪都反对我们有男朋友,说我们是 puppy love (华语是小狗恋爱?不明白~~),可是我从小感情丰富,上小学一年级已经有心上人了,还记得他名字是Vincent,过后我还帮我弟取了Vincent(可是现在没在用了哈哈). 


爸爸妈咪反对
到了国中,妈咪对我更加严厉,她知道我有个小男友,就连家里电话也不让我碰,朋友打来都得问是谁打来干嘛的. 我也没手机. 怎么说,橡皮筋拉得越紧 反弹时会更疼. 和那小男友在一起应该有3年吧(我记性很好 别得罪我 哈哈 开玩笑)我属于乖巧型女孩(就是那种怕老师怕闹事的,现在想起来我有必要那么乖吗LOL),而小男友是不爱念书爱逃课的学生,现在问我我也不明白怎么会喜欢上他.


爱情就是无法解释的,更何况他是你第一个爱得那么深的人. 尽管老师怎么劝我,我也只会点头说好,也没认真考虑她们的劝告. 当时我只知道他可以为了我改变自己!

我劝他要好好念书,把头发剪短 别逃课, 他没100%配合我,就偶尔敷衍我.

有天,学校拨电话给妈咪,谈了我们的事. 妈咪也告诉了爸爸,爸他很传统 就是觉得男女授受不亲,拿起藤鞭要鞭我;妈咪她立刻阻止:不行,我不让你打她 *脸上还流着泪* (这一幕,我这一辈子没法忘记,我要时时刻刻提醒自己不能再让妈咪为我伤心

爸:你是要以后倒垃圾吗?(他意思是和那小男友一起以后不会幸福


藕断丝连
尽管这样,我还是无法离开他. 他曾经在朋友面前骂我,在我要考试前发脾气,爱提出分手等等....... 几度我提出分手,他用跳楼自杀威胁我 (我还真的相信 怕了他==!)他几乎不让我和其他男生说话,不让我穿短裤短裙,到补习社会拨电话(拨打我朋友手机)问我穿了什么. 如果是短于膝盖的裤子/裙子,我会被骂><  (天啊!我怎么那么笨告诉他

已经很多次,他对我发脾气,甚至在朋友面前辱骂我,家人把我捧在手掌心你怎么能那样对我, 你不配!

啊!这是当时玩Friendster的头像,我不明白为什么眼睛睁得那么大,干嘛要咬手指,是装可爱还是卖弄性感啊?LOL


他不配
朋友问我会和他结婚吗?我说不会,我深信他不会是我的未来老公,因为他不配. 那为什么还在一起呢?--------不舍.

就是不舍得那么多年的感情,一个我放了那么多心思的男生. 终于有天,他又再次提出分手 恐吓我, 我忍不住 就说:好呀!就分手!


他有点吓着了(我平时不会对他大声),我没理会他,在一旁流着泪. 那段时间,他会拨电话来我家 尝试挽回,我几度想要原谅他,可是我咬紧牙根坚持不复合,因为他不配!

伤心的日子很快熬过了,我可以自由地和朋友逛街,可以和男生朋友联络,啊!就是那种放下心头大石的感觉!!!!!!!

当时分手后第一次和朋友到金河广场逛街,穿短袖短裤,超开心无压力的!



我没后悔!一点也没有! 女生们,记得只要哭过就好了,时间能冲淡一切. 如果几年后回头看,你会发现当时的决定是对的.



恋爱和婚姻只是一线之差
当时我还是不明白为什么妈咪常说找男朋友要看好,不要结婚后后悔. 过后也谈过蛮长一段时间的恋爱,妈咪后来也蛮喜欢那男生的,他也承诺会让我过得幸福,我也觉得他可以是我的终身伴侣. 他对我很好,就是那种36孝男朋友. 我对他十分信任,根本没怀疑他.

当时高中的青涩脸庞哈哈哈


渐渐踏入学院,见识多一些,要求不一样,开始有了意见不合,虽然他还是宠着我,可是我发现有点不对劲了.

提出了分手再复合,分手复合好几次,最后发现有些事我被瞒着好久........ 而且还是妈咪告诉我的,当时很多谜底被揭开,我才发现自己被骗了3年之久. 没后悔在一起,他改变了我,为我上了宝贵的一课-------不要没主见地相信一个男人.


现在我觉得选男朋友和选老公一样重要,难道你只是打算浪费青春和一个不会是你终生伴侣的男人一起?然后再分手,再找下一个,再分手.........

爱情没得买保险,就算你们分手了,至少大家曾经认真对待这段感情.

他能当个好男友,那他能当个好老公好爸爸好女婿吗?这问题很重要. 如果父母不怎么喜欢那男的,你可要三思;如果妈咪告诉你这男的嫁不得,你可要三思;如果他和家人关系不好,你可要三思;如果对你他也不舍得花钱,你可要三思......... 
每个妈妈想要自己女儿嫁得好是没错的,毕竟她们经历过婚姻,也希望自己女儿以后有个美满生活. 


“ 男朋友不只是会改变你的Relationship status,而是能让你成长变得更成熟的那个人. 如果他不配当老公,那还留着干嘛?”


Saturday, 18 October 2014

My 1010 birthday in Melbourne !

Hellooooooo like seriously, long time no see *wave wave*

I have finished my classes and handed in my last report of study life on Friday , yeah huraayyyy no more rushing at the eleventh hour !!!!


Last Friday, it was hippo and my 1010 birthday, at this moment I still hardly believe that I found a partner who shared the same birthday with me. Recalling when I was in secondary school, I used to dream that I can find someone who shared the same birthday with me and be my lifetime partner (so dream comes true?) ya I want hippo to be my lifetime partner *blush blush*


awwww cant believe we've been annoying each other for 3+ years, and still counting hehehehe



Staying together for 8 months +, we went through as much as we didnt expect about. Most importantly, we love annoying and disturbing each other so much!!! And yes, our relationship getting stronger each day.

Honestly, I didnt expect much for the birthday celebration this year. I just wanted to be with him, ok la was desired for a little surprise onlllyyyyyyyy... just a little laaaaarrrr


I kept asking boyfriend what he bought for me as gift, where we will hang out, which restaurant he picked, etc.....

he get annoyed and said: OK LA I JUST TELL YOU THE FULL SCHEDULE OK , then you dont complain I never give surprise.

Me : OKOK I dont ask anymore

But still, I asked for a couple of times hahahaha 


Until the night before our actual birthday, he told me to get prepared as we need to stay overnight outside tomorrow. I was like : what now only tell me this,  what to wear in the afternoon what to bring what to ...... #girlsproblem



my boss aka hippo

caption: no internet no life 



I planned where to have our brunch, which was at Cumulus. We still have list of brunch places to goooo~~~~


Baked Chili Mussels $10 - TASTE SO DAMN GOODDDDDDD  

Jamon $35 for 40g- I always love jamon but hippo doesnt. I miss El Cerdo's jamon !!  

yum yum ~~

Madeleine $2.5 each - they say this is a MUST-ORDER in Cumulus so we ordered 4 pieces of it. 

filled with lemon curds and I feel hungry typing this now......  never regret to order this, will definitely visit them again !

Not ordering too much as we need to head to next place for afternoon tea !


and the #ootd for afternoon brunch + afternoon tea 





We had afternoon tea at The Market Lane, InterContinental Hotel. They start operating at 2pm. 




Hippo : I'm ready for it ! 

Not much comment on the food, however they served quality food =) 

Time for rest after eating so much .......... 
Hippo brought me to a hotel ( wtf it sounds so not right !! ) ~~~~


He planned to stay overnight at Sofitel Hotel so we can relax after dinner instead of going back home.



Back in hotel room and took a short nap before our birthday dinner. He told me our dinner gonna be in the same building, me no idea though. 


Decided to go for red lips for dinner hehehe
Our dinner was at No35 Restaurant which located at 35th floor as well =) 







cosy ambience with great service !


kids behind: selfie bojio ?



what we ordered, I would say they worth the price ! Not converting to MYR, the price is not expensive though 






ok just typical I-eat-you-take photo 

view from our seats, night scene of Melbourne. 








my #ootd for night =)




and too much selfiessssss




closer look of my make up of the day , wearing 3CE Kiss Woo lipstick if you wonder. 



Our birthday night ended with KFC as our supper lollll 
If you wondering what I received as my birthday gift, it's the Balenciaga cluth that I were holding in few of the photos. YES I love the gift so muchhhh because hippo is an anti-branded person hahaha so it feels so strange to receive a branded stuff from him >< 









That's all for my birthday post !! Sleep nao , good night =)

Sunday, 21 September 2014

My first CC cream & cushion - Elishacoy Always Nuddy CC + Giveaway !



Hellooooooooo HIIIIIIIII
Been busying like a bee recently as my semester is coming to the end , hmmm this is my last semester and I'll be finishing my study life *stress mode*


After struggling for monthsSS of my superb bad skin condition, finally I can walk out with naked skin =((((( YET, it's still scars on my face but I believe that they will gone forever!! *hold fist*

Today's post will be a review of 2 products-  Elishacoy Always Nuddy CC Cream & Cushion.


Elishacoy Always Nuddy CC Cream


+ 10 in 1 Function
+ SPF 30++
+ Blend into your skin naturally
+ Wrinkle reduction
+ Made in Korea


notice the difference? Image from www.supermodel2u.com/



the face with eye make + lip tint  

Blending the CC cream with 3D Blending Sponge  [ Giving out 10 of them , continue reading please 



Highly recommend this sponge as you can simply replace your finger by this tool ! It's sold at Rm9.90 at Supermodelsecrets , direct link to purchase: CLICK


My comment: In overall, it's is not my cup of tea as I need something with good/average coverage for my current skin condition. However, I recommend this to normal skin girl who wants a matte finish look with no white/grey tint like most BB cream. My skin is dry due to cold weather here in Melbourne so I need something really moisturizing as well ><



As photo below, redness of scars still can be seen even though is not obvious as before. This is the result of applying one layer, if you want better coverage, 2 layers will do =)
Direct link to purchase Elishacoy Always Nuddy CC Cream : CLICK 







Elishacoy Always Nuddy CC Cushion

+ SPF 50+ PA+++ + Whitening & Anti- Wrinkle
+ Handy & Simple Makeup 
+ Moisturizing effect
+ Made in Korea


You should know that this is my current favor cosmetic !!!! Not using foundation for months but only this cushion. Never get to try Laneige BB Cushion so I cant differentiate/rate them.









nahhhhhh you can see the difference now ! No photoshop, scars can be covered but not perfectly covered, yet still love it !




My comment: This cushion leaves my skin a soft dewy look + moistures my skin !!! Oil control is not bad as I only need to touch up my make up after 2-3 hours (consider good for me). Coverage of it is not as perfect as concealer does but at least it hidden some of the obvious scars hehehe =)))))) Happy with it !!!

Direct link to purchase : CLICK 

finish look like this !






YES! I'm giving out 10 3D Beauty Blending Sponge from Supermodelsecrets to my 10 lucky readers!!!!!!


Follow my Instagram ( @melissa1010 ) or checkout my Instagram (if you've clicked to follow) for the step to WIN it !


*Winners will be announced on 27-9-2-14

Hope you like this review as much as myself do !  ^^